When To Break Up With Someone Your Living With

We have all been at a point when we had to ask when to break up with someone your living with. All of us have been through heartache and heartbreak. Though there is no exact science or specific answer to when to break up with someone your living with, here is some advice to help.

First of all, I would start by saying that I believe you are torn between staying and leaving if you are asking the question of when to break up with someone your living with. If you were certain it was time to leave, you wouldn't be asking that question. However, if the relationship was going well, you wouldn't be asking when to break up with someone your living with either.

The first place I would have you start is to think about the good and the bad aspects of the relationship. What is it you want, need, and enjoy about it. At the same time, make a similar list of the things in the relationship you don't like. The wants and needs you have that aren't being provided for.

Once you look at these lists, you can begin to see where the relationship is, at least from your stand point. Then you can decide whether or not you want to work on those things that you aren't getting, or at least talk to your partner about them and try to work on them, or if it would be better and easier for you to leave.

If you haven't done everything in your power to try and fix those problems, then it may not truly be time to leave yet. Something about that person pulls your heart strings if you moved in with them. Is the relationship able to be fixed. Once you take the time to look at the pro's and con's of the relationship, and have done your part to fix everything, then you will be able to answer when to break up with someone your living with.