We have all gotten to the point where we wondered if we should stay or if we should go. Here are some necessary questions to ask before ending a relationship. These will help you decide which fork in the road you should take. Be honest with these questions to ask before ending a relationship.
The first of questions to ask before ending a relationship is whether or not there is any chance of you being happy in the relationship. We are all on the same path in life, and that is to find a piece of happiness in our little corner of the world. Are there still parts of the relationship that make you happy, or are you completely miserable all the time. If there is still some happiness in the relationship and you don't completely hate one another, things can be salvaged.
The second of questions to ask before ending a relationship is whether or not the two of you have done everything in your power to make it work, and still failed. Chances are extremely good that you haven't done everything you can to make it work. Often times, people don't know what to do in order to make a relationship work. This lack of knowledge is often times a big reason for failure.
The third of questions to ask before ending a relationship is whether or not your relationship is an open and honest relationship with trust. Is there communication, and the ability to take what the other person says regardless of whether or not we like it. Is there affection in the relationship. These are necessary corner stones of the foundation of a healthy relationship. Without them, you most likely should leave unless there is a way to build and fix them. Without any one of these three aspects of a relationship, a relationship begins down a path that cannot be corrected.
Thursday, July 10, 2008
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