Are There Reasons To Break Up?

All of us have been in relationships that have gotten to the point that made us wonder what the reasons to break up are. Whether or not we should move on, or stay, and which path we should choose. Instead of asking for reasons to break up, I would urge you to ask the following questions instead.

The first question to ask is whether or not you really want to break up. Even if there are reasons to break up, does your heart tell you that you really want to stay? If you can't say that you want to leave for certain, then chances are good that your relationship can be salvaged, and probably should.

So the question isn't what the reasons to break up are, but instead, how can things be fixed so that the relationship can be stronger and better. What are the areas of the relationship that need to be worked on.? What do you need to do in order to fix the relationship better? What does the other person in your relationship have to do to help you?

I see some relationships that are horrible, to say the least. It becomes a cycle that needs to be broken. She tells him, with a snappy tone, to make his own darn food. In return, he attacks her back in order to defend himself. This slowly builds until neither person can stand to be near each other.

Has something been done that cannot be dealt with or undone? This may be one of the reasons to break up. Most of the time, relationships fail because of the little things that are forgotten. Once the magical feel that was there when the relationship first started fades, what do both of you do to keep that spark in the relationship.

Instead of asking what the reasons to break up are, start asking what can be done to repair the relationship before you have to break up. If you are asking what the reasons to break up are, I would bet that you aren't ready to end it yet, and would rather figure out how to fix the problems in the relationship and make the relationship better.